I always been so curious to try using a big dildo, so when the opportunity presented itself, I jumped at the chance to do it.It was pretty scary but also so exciting. To get started, the first thing I did was gather all the necessary materials to make the whole experience as safe and comfortable as possible. Lube was a must, I also used a good quality probiotic since I heard that it can help to reduce discomfort, I also used gloves to make sure it was going to be a clean experience.
The second step was finding the right position. I used my bed and some pillows to prop myself and get as relaxed as possible before attempting to use the dildo. Reclining on my side with my legs bent up seemed to me like the safest way to do it. I found that tranquil music and some deep breaths helped me to relax, it was also very helpful to make sure my breathing was nice and steady.
The third step was the actual insertion. I lubed the dildo up and I took my time to get it all the way inside me. I was really scared but I know that if I relaxed my body and took deep breathes it would be easier. I slowly but steadily I was eventually able to get the dildo all the way in.
The fourth step was incorporating movement. I started by rocking my hips slowly from side to side a few times and then switching to a more circular motion. I soon found that using more thrusting energies made it much more enjoyable.
The fifth step was to make sure that I was breathing steadily throughout. This was really helpful since it prevented me from getting overwhelmed and helped me to get the most out of the experience. I often incorporate visualization into my breathing, this technique really helped me to stay present and focus on the pleasure that I was receiving.
The sixth step for me is all about finding what feels best. I like to explore different angles, speeds, and pressures to really find the exact spot or sensation that brings me to my desired level of pleasure. I often incorporate stimulating my clitoris when I’m doing this, When I’m able to do this with a big dildo, it’s a completely different experience.
The seventh step was just as important as the previous ones. Once I was done, I took some time to relax, breathe, and just savor the experience. Taking few moments for myself after every session is an important way to connect and love my body.
From then on, I started having even bigger and more enhanced experiences when using my big dildo. There is something about having complete control over the levels of pleasure that you can get to. I always feel very empowered after every session. It’s incredible how creative and imaginative you can get when it comes to exploring the depths of your own body with a big dildo.
I started to experiment with different positions like cowgirl, doggy style and even sitting on the dildo. For me, cowgirl was the best because it allowed me to find the deepest angles and to play with the sensation and vibrators the stretching. The doggy style, while feeling amazing, was too much for me.
I also found out that with a huge dildo it’s better to go slow. I completely understand why some people might want to ramp it up quickly but for me it worked best when I was able to do it in increments and slowly build up.
Now, I love to incorporate different toys and products into my anal play. One thing that has been really fun and that I highly recommend is pairing a big dildo with a remote-controlled vibrator. The sensation that you get when you incorporate vibration into the experience is so amazing and feels so good.
I also love playing around with different speeds and Penis Rings patterns. There is so much room for creativity when you are using both a dildo and a vibrator. I also find that when I mix in some toy twists like sucking and biting, for example, it just makes the whole experience even more epic.
Speaking of adding a twist, I also discovered that lube is essential when it comes to anal play. Well-lubricated toys and playful partners are the way to go. Some lubes can even be heated in order to create a sensation that is even more pleasurable and intense.
When it comes to stretching, there are as many options as there are pleasures. You can start with small and medium sized toys and take it from there. I tried using a ball stretcher as a way to take my pleasure to the next level and it really worked wonders.
Lastly, aftercare is an important part of the process. Taking few moments after every session to relax and talk about the experience with my partner has proven to be just as stimulating and pleasurable in the post-sexytime zone.
Experimenting with new things is always a great way to enhance and extend to the pleasure of using a big dildo. Whether it’s trying out different positions, toys, or lubes, anything that leads to a great experience is worth excavating and exploring. With that being said, I urge anyone who is curious about using a big dildo to just take the plunge and let the good times roll.